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God's Will -
Nothing More...Nothing Less...Nothing Else

Discernment and consensus are an important part of who we are as a church body and together they provide a primary guide for how we operate as a church.

What Is Discernment?

The purpose and goal of spiritual discernment is knowing and doing God’s will.
Discernment is seeing as God sees.

Scriptural Basis For Discernment
The scriptural basis for discernment is found in:

1 Kings 3:5, 9-14 At Gideon the Lord appeared to Solomon in a dream by night; and God said, “Ask what I should give you.” Solomon replied “Give your servant therefore an understanding mind to govern your people, able to discern between good and evil… It pleased the Lord that Solomon had asked this. God said to him, ‘Because you have asked this, and have not asked for yourself long life or riches, or for the life of your enemies, but have asked for yourself understanding to discern what is right, I now do according to your word. Indeed I give you a wise and discerning mind…I give you also what you have not asked, both riches and honor all your life;”

Romans 12:2 Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your minds, so that you may discern what is the will of God – what is good and acceptable and perfect.

Ephesians 5:17 So do not be foolish but understand what the will of the Lord is.

(Scriptural quotes from the New Revised Standard Version)

Three Preconditions To Discernment

There are three preconditions to discernment:
1. A relationship of open communication with God.
2. A desire to know the will of God.
3. A commitment to doing the will of God.

We use three models of discernment or consensus:
1. "Discernment to See as God Sees" by Bishop David Lawson;
2. "Corporate Discernment and Consensus" by James C Fenhagen
3. "Discerning God’s Will Together" by Danny Morris and Charles Olsen

Although we follow three models, our basic approach to seeking God’s will is similar in all three models.

Discernment To See As God Sees

1. Gather good data and basic factual information, identifying
alternatives and possibilities.

2. Insist that all categories be kept “soft” in order that creativity may be present and contribute to the process.

3. Maintain a holy indifference to the outcome, laying aside all biases and prejudices. Be willing to leave the outcome to God’s direction and to be obedient to the results.

4. Maintain a community and climate of worship.

5. Ask and respond to the question, “Where have we sensed God’s affirmation in what we have been about?”

6. Spend time in reflection and prayer, listening to God’s direction.

7. Share with the community what you have seen, heard and felt in your reflection time. Dialogue about it. At this stage there is no right or wrong, but rather a desire to hear God. Frequently, insight and wisdom come in the dialogue.

8. Humility is crucial. Each one must be constantly aware that God may have spoken through another person.

9. Wait for God’s timing. Sometimes there is silence during the wait. Continue to ask God for direction during the wait.

10. Remember to keep a holy indifference to the outcome, willing to receive new ideas and to consider them.

11. When consensus begins to form, continue to offer all plans and commitments to God for reshaping.

(From Bishop David Lawson’s book Discernment Steps: Toward a Vision of God’s Will)

We no longer conduct “business” or make decisions following parliamentary procedures (Roberts’ Rules of Order). Instead, we seek consensus.

Corporate Discernment and Consensus

*When a ministry opportunity or project is identified, clearly describe it. Gather all possible evidence and make it available to those who will be engaged in the deliberation. Then the process begins:

1. Enter into a time of meditation and prayer seeking openness to and guidance from the Spirit.

2. Share “cons,” with each person reporting the reasons he or she discerns against moving in a particular direction.

3. Enter into a time of prayer, allowing time to reflect on the seriousness of the “cons” that have been shared.

4. Share “pros,” with each person reporting his or her own personal discernment. If no clear consensus emerges, the process continues.

5. Enter into a time of prayer, allowing time for reflection upon the “pros.”

6. Sort out and weigh the reasons behind the pros and cons, recording those reasons so that they are available to everyone to discern communally, in the light of what has been listed, the direction to which the community is called by God.

“If the conditions of authentic communal discernment have been fulfilled (i.e., if there is genuine openness to the Spirit), the decision should be made clear, and confirmation should be experienced unanimously through shared deep peace… finding God together..” (John Futrell, S.J. “Communal Discernment: Reflection on Experience,“ Studies in the Spirituality of the Jesuits IV, no. 54 [November 1972]: 173).

7. Lift up a concluding prayer of thanksgiving and make a reaffirmation of corporate commitment to carrying out the decision.

(From James C. Fenhagen, Ministry and Solitude, New York: The Seabury Press, 1981)

Discerning God's Will Together

There are ten stages within the discernment process:

1. Framing identifies the focus for discernment of God's will. The matters to be included are arranged into a unified whole. The focus of the exploration is briefly described.

2. Grounding in a guiding principle jump-starts the process of discernment. The guiding principle is informed by the values, beliefs, and purpose of the discerning community. Boundaries are set.

3. Shedding lays aside ego, preconceived notions, false assumptions, biases, and predetermined conclusions so that persons involved in discernment can openly consider the matter.

4. Rooting in the tradition connects religious and biblical stories, themes, and images with the situation at hand. The tradition may confront, confirm, nudge, or even transform the direction of the discernment process.

5. Listening enables hearing the promptings of the Spirit of God, the voices of all in the discerning community, and the needs of others who may be affected by our discernment.

6. Exploring frees our playful imaginations to identify possible options and paths that lie within the guiding principle.

7. Improving works in consultation and prayer to improve each option under consideration until it becomes the best that we can imagine it to be within the yearning of God.

8. Weighing sorts and tests the options or paths in response to the leading of God's Spirit.

9. Discerning brings the explorations to a conclusion, moving toward the selection of an option which is given weight by the Spirit of God and the process in which the community is engaged.

10. Resting tests the decision by allowing it to rest near the heart to determine whether it brings primarily feelings of consolation (a sense of peace and movement toward God) or desolation (distress and movement away from God).

(From Discerning God’s Will Together: A Spiritual Practice for the Church by Danny Morris and Charles Olsen)

Consensus Levels

*Under the Fenhagen model of Corporate Discernment and Consensus, the focus of step 6 is to determine if there is consensus. When we talk about consensus, it doesn’t necessarily mean everyone is in absolute agreement.

*Consensus can occur at three different levels. Everyone may not completely agree, but they can live with the decision.

~ I agree

~ I don't agree with everything,
but I can live with it.

~ I don't agree at all,
but I can see that most do agree
and I can live with it.


*There is one level which means that consensus is not reached.

~ I don't agree
and I can't live with it.


*If there is anyone who cannot live with a decision, (i.e., we haven’t reached consensus) then we return to more prayer to seek reshaping of our decision and to continue to seek unanimous consensus.

 

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